Mar 9, 2021
Sounds to me like this team you worked with thought you had some magical "wonder woman like" powers by using your "feminine approach". You should have said, let me get my magic luminous whip.
As for overseeing Carl, it looks like you got served the short straw because they couldn't be bothered to deal with such an unruly person.
This was a bad fit from the outset. I feel for you...